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TAKE UP YOUR GOALS

8
Dec
2015
8.12.2015

Have you not seen the goals you established at the beginning of the year? If so, it is a good moment to recapitulate and rectify.

TAKE UP YOUR GOALS

Have you not seen the goals you established at the beginning of the year? If so, it is a good moment to recapitulate and rectify.
If a plan does not go exactly as planned is not a novelty. In fact, most of the times the plan changes ways. Many people get disappointed when the results are not the expected ones. Plenty of time we are the ones who sabotage our goals. What to do not to give up on them? What to do to pick them up?
1. DO NOT AVOID YOURSELF. BE RESPONSIBLE OF YOU
Adopt a stance with which you identify your future. Open the path, create an opinion, and propose arguments that define what you really want for you. Go from “inert here and now” to the “conscious here and now”. Listen and observe yourself. Your decisions determine who you are. You actions speak for you. Excuses and meaningless activities have no point. The success comes only when you stop sabotaging it with your own contradictions.
2. REPLAN YOUR LIFE ON LOSE-WIN TERMS
Prepare yourself to conceive your life in a different way. Every change means losing something and winning other thing. For example: you have to “unleash” or “let go” of activities, routines and even people who trick you or dilate you experience of change. Sometimes, people close to us are the ones who trap us most.
3. RENEW YOUR LOST ILLUSIONS
The ugly truth is that things have not been completed yet due to your lack of convincement, action, dedication and tenacity. And you know it. For that reason the uncertainty and the fear of dreaming took over. It is like you were handicapped to go after your own well-being. You lost your illusion and desire to live a better life. Listen carefully: The defeatism is a perspective mistake.
4. LEARN HOW TO ENJOY THE LIFE
When things do not come out as planned it might make you angry easily. The help offered by people who love you could be considered as an interruption o waste of time. React! And do not be so intense.
5. EDUCATE A SOLID GOOD WILL
This covers from listening or talking with other people with positive experience of change or testimonies of success to reading books of coaching and even going to psychologist.

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